The most common job hunting mistake...and ways to correct it!

I have been mulling what the "most common mistake on the job search," is, and I keep coming back to the idea that people (spectrum and non) often treat looking for a job as a bunch of individual efforts rather than a synthesized, related process that really benefits from even a little bit of pre-planning and organization in advance. Of course, this can be a challenge to people of all ages, skills, and experience, not to mention those on the Spectrum who often are really challenged by a process that is both possibly new to them and also very involved and detailed even in the best of circumstances. Fortunately, there are ways for all people to set themselves up for success and make their efforts count, building on previous experiences in order to keep refining their process and thus be working both smart and hard! It is doable!

Basically, in my work, I have found that breaking down the job search into granular parts is the best approach, with the first break-down level being the parts of 1. where to apply, 2. outreach needs, and 3. follow up. Of course, all these parts have processes that work together to an extent, but they can also be separated and looked at as unique work, and maybe for some or all of these parts getting some outside help/feedback on the more challenging elements is worthwhile. 

Executive Function skills will be developed and/or bolstered with this approach, and when the time comes to do the job search again it won't be a novel situation, and doing it right will also teach work skills as far as "managing it like a project." 

I apologize in advance that this reply is long, but I hope it contains advice that is useful...I love this kind of work and could go on in deeper detail about anything I mention below, please just ask! Helping others helps me sharpen my skills! 

WHERE TO APPLY: Keep it simple...unless you are ready and willing to move or commute a goodly distance, what are some places where you'd like to work that are close to where you live? "Close" is pretty subjective, but getting to and from work with ease will make the other parts of a life a bit easier to navigate and lessen stress and anxiety, giving a person the best chance to perform the new job with greater confidence and not miss work due to commute hassles. Perhaps as you apply at more places your distance increases, but keep it as simple and close as possible, to start. 

Networking with people you know about your job hunt is also very valuable...if you mention you are looking for a job (be it entry level or all the way to executive level) and in what general type of work, even if someone has no ideas when you mention it, they will become a kind of ambassador for you and have your search in mind as they go about their day and see notices in windows, read online posts, or hear things from their contacts that might benefit you! It's a compliment to appropriately network with someone, not a hassle for them...check online for examples on how to do this or ask someone more experienced for advice, it's a "soft skill" that is scary if you have not done it before but it gets much easier with some practice!

Check the education and/or experiences of people who have the kind of job you are shooting for to see how you realistically compare to them, and adjust depending on what you find. It's KEY to make a list or spread sheet of places you think you could apply...please do not tap your forehead and say "It's all up here!" PROCESS and ORGANIZATION start here!

OUTREACH NEEDS: Here is where a person can REALLY be efficient and help themselves! Outreach email messages or cover letters, resumes, writing samples, references, Power Points that show your work, and various sorts of other materials may all come into play. Rather than "reinventing the wheel" each and every time (not time efficient, very discouraging, and not where you want to devote your focus), have a resume that you carefully tweak to promote strengths and experiences and abilities that relate to the job you are applying for, and cover letters/email messages that have some spots for personalization and again thoughtfully highlighting what you've done that prepares you for the gig. 

Keep copies of these letters/messages and resume drafts so that when the job calls you about your application, you can pull up what you sent them and be ready for the informal/formal interview...print them out before a phone call or before heading into an office, and have them with you for easy reference when you sit down with people. 

Remember that list or spread sheet of places to apply? Now add columns that list what you sent them and when, along with any comments on personalization that you did or info on the company...this step especially helpful for developing executive function skills for uniquely-abled folks, and for general organization understanding for anyone.

Keep the work on where to apply and outreach work going until the right job is accepted...NEVER say something like "Okay, I've applied at five places, I'll just wait and see what they say." New places and new outreach all the time, even if you have interviews scheduled and things look promising...until they offer the job and you accept, you don't have a job and you have to keep this process going. It's something of a volume game...better things tend to happen with more chances for them TO happen. "Keep the pipeline full!"

FOLLOW UP: Sometimes overlooked, this last part really closes the loop and develops the executive function piece: each job opportunity is not just discovered and applied for and then...nothing?! If you get no response on your application, after about two weeks, a brief email or pre-scripted call reminding the place of your candidacy and refreshing your interest and hoping to continue the contact is warranted. Same thing after about another two weeks if the silence continues. After that, this opportunity may "go on the back burner," but you'll have other things going all the time to occupy you until the right job is accepted...that "full pipeline" also pays benefits in staying optimistic and knowing you have other options out there, and were not just counting on a few applications to come through. 

Keep track of this with your list, so you don't have to guess if you did, in fact, check with Acme Corp about your application. If a place turns you down, you might consider a polite follow up to find out what you were lacking in their evaluation of your candidacy. This info might be hard to hear, but it'll help you SO MUCH in future work or in deciding what jobs to later realistically go after. You are not arguing with them, you are asking for feedback on your application and to benefit from the HR person's point of view. Maybe in five years of working elsewhere you'll have what they said they were interested in hiring, and perhaps come back for another opening (they likely won't remember or care about the previous application, and if they do, spin it as "I told you I wanted to work there, and I never have forgotten your company!").

If you get a phone or in-person interview, NEVER ignore a hand-written (or typed out and glued into a card) thank-you note, thanking them for their time and consideration, mentioning something about the interview that you liked or that really mattered to you (not just a generic "thanks"), and reiterating why you are right for the job and enthusiastic about the opportunity. Send this promptly (same day ideal!) after the interview, with the name of the person who was the primary interviewer CORRECTLY SPELLED and right mailing address..find this off the web or get a business card, please don't ask them during the interview. An email to them is okay, I guess, and a bit better than nothing, but a mailed note really cuts through the chatter...always has, always will. Don't send flowers or edible arrangements or anything like that to thank them :-) 

Whew! That's a lot, but I hope it helps and, as always, I am eager to expand on any of the above or any related topics. Thank you for reading!